Ya'll, I'm really going through the mire and I don't know how to handle this...
I (26M) was with my ex (F30) for about a year and it was honestly the happiest and healthiest relationship of my life. We were compatible on every level possible, had next to everything in common, and people apparently considered us the power couple. We never fought, had maybe two arguments during the entire duration of our relationship, lines of communication were always open, and marriage plans were even discussed, agreed upon, and eventually we had everything lined up and laid out. It was the relationship I always wanted. But as turns out, it was too good to be true.
Last May, everything seemed to be normal. She went to work, I went to work, we texted each other throughout the day, per the usual. Texted her about a new job opportunity, the last words exchanged over text were "I love you and I'm proud of you." Everything's peachy, right? That afternoon, I get a call while she's driving home. She said she "couldn't do it anymore" and "had to rethink our relationship" and "didn't see a future together anymore." I asked why, she didn't tell me. Only that she could never really make me happy and that we'd resent each other. After that, I hung up and promptly vomited off my porch. She blocked me on every form of social media, email, number, etc.
Months go by, I'm in therapy, pour myself into my job and I'm reading a lot of books. Therapist says I've done the best at handling trauma like this out of all his patients and congratulates me for being healthy and making good choices about my situation. I even start dating again and get out of the house. I started to feel normal again, until tonight.
I'm in the car with my sister and she tells me that ex had posted a TikTok last night, and it was about me. She never mentioned my name, but she made this long schpeel about having to "move on" and "choose another path" and it was like she was the one that was dumped, not me. What upset me so was that she threw away a very personal gift I gave her last Christmas. Needless to say, it was like opening the wound again.
My question is this, what do I do to handle this? I don't wanna watch the video because it might send me back into my depression, I don't want to contact her, and I don't know what to do. I feel like I shouldn't ignore it if she's spinning some false narrative. Reddit, please help me figure this out.
TL;DR: Partner leaves me out of nowhere, then makes a Tiktok playing the victim. What do I do
Submitted July 23, 2021 at 09:03PM by IAmNotYourMouse https://ift.tt/3y4ip3t
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