I'm very close to both from high school. The 3 of us are in different social groups but I happened to go along with him in high school and became very close. I met her around the same period and we clicked ever since too. I was a friend of both but they only knew each other from high school too, nothing more. They started dating a couple of years ago which caught me by surprise but they are both pretty cool so I was happy.
This has been bugging me for a few days. I caught him in the background of a Close friends IG story making out with another girl who I don't know. I had a hard look and she wasn't the girlfriend. I took a screen recording, sent it to him and asked. He took veery long to reply but confirmed it and told me not to say it to her that he was gonna say it to her himself...
2 days went by and I texted her asking how was life... small talk... I then asked her how things are going with him jokingly "Is he treating you right?" She said yes, as usual. He didn't confess, because she would've definitely told me. I texted him again and he hasn't responded yet.
I feel morally obligated to tell her since I'd love for my friends to tell me if they knew something I didn't, but at the same time, I don't wanna overstep since I don't know whether he's actually planning to tell her and is trying to "find the perfect moment" or whatever the case might be.
His lack of response makes me feel some type of way but at the same time it is their life and I feel like I'm being too nosey since they're both my friends and I don't want to lose either, they're both good friends.
How should I go about it? What would you do?
I feel like this year has been full of drama in my life, friendship wise.
Tl;dr: 2 friends are together and the male is cheating on the female. I asked him about it, he confirmed it and told me he was gonna confess. He hasn't after a few days. What should I do as friend of the 2 that I am?
Submitted March 02, 2021 at 09:54PM by justmeeemo https://ift.tt/3kJ8PNR
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