TLDR; husband seems incapable of consistently helping with chores without me constantly reminding or bugging him.
Right now I’m working full time (I have my own law firm) and husband is working from home. His work is awesome because it’s a salaried position but doesn’t require a standard 9-5. Inevitably that means he can fill his days with breaks to play some video games.
We have had the same struggle since we started living together 9 years ago... He will be helpful for a few weeks after I lose my shit but eventually he goes back to the same routine. We have the same conversation about how he’s not carrying the load on this part of the marriage.
The problem is now I’m starting to get pissed every day I walk in the house. We have a 2.5 year old and I’m 4 months pregnant. I shouldn’t be the only one cleaning and handling laundry. I’ve asked him to cut the grass for two fucking weeks and it still hasn’t happened. I’m at my wits end and frustrated because he gets so defensive whenever I push the subject. So now I’m forced to either deal with a dirty house or handle everything myself. I’m not asking him to be Cinderella.... just pick up the toddler clutter and load the dishes. Oh and cut the fucking grass.
Helppppppppp.
Submitted August 25, 2020 at 06:23AM by 3squireH https://ift.tt/3gxj0RI
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