Me and my boyfriend moved together like six months ago. He works a full time job and I work around 25-30 hours. The reason why I didn't get a full time job is because soon I'll go back to study so I decided to stay in that job.
When we talked about moving together we decided that we would split rents 65/35 approximately because he makes way more money than me and I couldn't afford living in a place like that or even paying half the rent.
Nothing changed. We still have the same jobs but now he's demanding me to pay half the rent. I'm not sure why. He seems very irritated at me. I've been noticing this for a few days but I don't know why he has been so fixated with the rent. I'm not sure what to tell him because I can't afford living in his place. And half the rent is too much. I feel like this is unfair because we agreed from the start to this. If I got a better job or if I was given a raise then sure I would pay more. But that's not the case.
I've been thinking if moving out but I don't know when I will be able to find a room or apartment. And also I'm not sure how this will affect the relationship because I would have to move away from his area to afford something.
Is this unfair or I'm being unreasonable? And I'm not sure of what to do from now on. What should I tell him? The easiest option would be moving out but even that is difficult.
TL;DR my boyfriend lives in an expensive area. When we moved together we agreed to pay around 65/35 each. Now he's demanding to pay half and half but I can't afford it. Is this unfair? I am not sure. And I'm not sure what's the best solution.
Submitted August 26, 2020 at 02:17PM by newhiaks https://ift.tt/3lulGn5
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