So, i'm currently in school to get my masters and working for myself on the side too (mini business and independent contractor type deal). However, my boyfriend throughout the year got a tattoo. $1000. he didn't like it, put stress on us so he got it touched up for $200. then he didn't like that so he got a cover up for like $2500. that just got done.
i'm 22 weeks pregnant. he doesn't have a job. he got money from selling his car which he went and bought a dealership one so he has payments. however... we have a baby coming up and especially with him not having a job (he got hired to one but he's unsure about it and doesn't have a good reputation for keeping a job. which i keep saying isn't okay especially right now.) but then he tells me he set up ANOTHER tattoo appointment for a tattoo "just under $500."....
I love that tattoos make him happy. but I feel like this is an irresponsible thing to do right before a baby is coming when a baby will be expensive especially with me staying at home for a while, and he doesn't have a reliable job and he just got a tattoo finished recently. I told him my feelings about this and about how he should be saving and prioritizing for the child...before the $2000 cover up.
My question is, should I be dropping this and just trying to have his back with him getting this other tattoo, or should I try to talk to him more to realize things or compromise? I don't want to sound crazy and if I have no place telling him how to spend his money then I'd like to hear that, but if I'm not crazy and he should be more wise with his decisions for the baby. PLEASE let me know. I need third opinions.
TL; DR: I feel that my (20f) boyfriend (22m) soon to be baby daddy, isnt making a smart decision about his money and not prioritizing correctly and am unsure of what to do.
Submitted August 26, 2020 at 05:01PM by THROWRA_needsadvice https://ift.tt/2EDqhSK
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