My [30F] boyfriend [28M] has broken up with me twice in the 4 years we've been together. Having extreme anxiety about him doing that again.

My [30F] boyfriend [28M] has broken up with me twice in the 4 years we've been together. Each breakup was really upsetting but lasted only a day or two with him deciding against it.

I have figured out that when he gets depressed or stressed about his life or work, he automatically blames our relationship. I have become so worried that at any time he will break things off even when it seems like things are going well. It's affecting my daily life and giving me nightmares. He almost broke up with me again this week but we talked and worked things out. The weekend before we went to see his family, and mine. His idea!

Our sex life is good and we have a house and 2 dogs together. His recent concern was that we are both home too much since Covid and he doesn't have any space. We discussed some ways to better the situation. Honestly I don't know how much more I can take! His unhappiness seems to come from nowhere.

TL;DR I love and want to be with my boyfriend but fear he will break things off at any moment. This anxiety is affecting me negatively.

Submitted August 29, 2020 at 06:51AM by Snowboatshowboat https://ift.tt/3b7y9rS