Okay so this is a constant fight between my husband (25m) and I since I started working from home. We have a 3 bedroom home. Master is of course ours, we have a spare bedroom, and we have an office. We have an extra bed that we will move into the office whenever out of town guests come over that requires more than one bedroom. Which is fine. Doesn’t happen often. But since I’m now working from home, my office is like my sanctuary. I’m in there 12 hours a day. It’s become an important space for me, which it never mattered before. We have three friends that come over almost every weekend. Two of which are a couple, one is a single friend. We always end up moving the bed to my office for him to sleep on. But now that this is MY area, I’ve asked several times for the single friend to just sleep on the couch so that I don’t have to move the bed in and out every single weekend. He’s basically a family friend, a brother to me. He honestly would not give a shit if we asked him to sleep on the couch but my husband freaks every single weekend when I once again ask to please leave my office alone. I have to move my desk and all of my things around every week to get this bed in and he’s always too hung over every Sunday to help me. He is still working every day and hasn’t ever had to work from home. I don’t think he understands how important it is to have a well organized and comfortable place to work to make it feel as normal as possible and actually get work done. I guess my question here is, am I being an asshole? He has his garage that I leave alone, I’m just asking for ONE room in the house to be untouched but I also feel like I might be acting spoiled about this.
TLDR ; husband likes to turn my office in to a guest bedroom every weekend and I just want my space to be left alone. Am I a jerk?
Submitted June 06, 2020 at 03:20PM by Such_Leopard https://ift.tt/2zePfFQ
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