Guys I'm really confused by what is going on with my husband and I dont know what to do right now.
My husband "Joe" and I got married two years ago. We have been having a little bit of a hard time latrly just due to work stress and we have been bickering a little more than usual but it was nothing super serious I didnt think.
Hes been working from home for the last two weeks, which has caused a little tension. Not having to go into work has removed any motivation he has had to do basically anything. He wakes up, he goes and sits in his chair in front of the computer, and he remains in that chair until it is time to go to bed. He has stopped shaving, he has not showered, he doesnt get dressed.
I understand not bothering getting all dressed and everything, but he is literally moving from bed, to chair, and back to bed. He spend several hours working and then he just switches over to gaming.
It finally hit a breaking point on Friday. I wound up getting furlough'd from work. So now we are here together all day. At first I tjought we could make the best of it but that has not happened.
He basically ignores me all day while he sits in his computer chair except to ask me to grab him food whe he is hungry.
Over the wekend I tried getting him interested here and there with watching a movie with me or just doing something other than sitting in front of his computer. He never wanted to.
I was a little sad, because I really need human interaction and I feel like I have had none since work shut down and my own husband does not seem to want to talk to me.
Now that the new week has started I have tried to be proactive in cleaning the apartment a little. I'm cleaning the apartment room by room and Id like some help here and there but I am having absolutely no luck in getting him from the computer.
On Tuesday I asked him if he could help me with taking trash out and stuff when he was done with work. He said he would but wound up getting on one of his games for hours before finally just coming to bed. He left the trwsh where it was and when I asked him to take it out he said he would in the morning. It is still there.
Yesterday I was a little upset with him for basically just ignoring me all this time and I wound up sitting down and asking him to do something with me. Watch a movie, help me clean, or just sit and talk with me. He seemed annoyed and said to give him a little bit.
He wound up getting up and getting dressed, then came back out and said he was going to a friend's. I asled him why he is going to a friends right now after I just asked him to interact with me somehow and he said wed do sometjing when he got back.
He hasnt come back. He texted me last night that he was crashing over there. I asked him to come home but he just messaged back that he was drunk and wouldnt be able to drive. This morning I called and asked when he was coming back. He said he was staying over there because he needs to work and I am "driving him nuts".
I literally started crying on the phone asking him to come back and just interact with me or something but he just acted annoyed and said "I need to go" and hung up. I havent heard anything else and Im having a breakdown and I dont know why he is ignoring me?!?
Why doesnt my husband interact with me?
Am I annoying ir being unreasonable? I just want some interaction with my husband? Am I wrong?
tl;dr: My husband has basically been ignoring me since weve both been stuck at home. I dont know why and it is making me really sad.
Submitted March 25, 2020 at 03:48PM by AcceptableTooth3 https://ift.tt/2xt5GNf
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