I was in a relationship for 6 months with my girlfriend when she broke up with over the phone on New Years'. She said over the phone we would meet up to talk about it and give each other clothes back, we live an hour apart from each other.
This break up caught me completely off guard as I thought it was going great, went to each other's houses from Christmas meeting extended family, going to family members birthdays etc. We went on little Air BnB getaways and even booked a 4-day trip three days before she left me.
The day after she left me via phone, I texted her and she said she didn't think talking so soon was a good idea and that she had things she needed to work on. She said we will meet up and talk about things and send me her work schedule when she gets it.
I then texted her on January 17th to see if she got her schedule and was ready to talk. She replied saying she wanted time and space, stating she isn't ready to chat just yet, and that when she is ready she will contact me.
It just hurts feeling like someone cared /loved you so much and would do so much for you. Then in a blink of an eye, erase you from their life.
It's March now, and it still hurts knowing that I will never get a message or a reason why she left. You think you know someone so well and feel like they will do anything for you. But, in an instant, they pretend like you don't exist.
Recently my brother's girlfriend who was good friends with my girlfriend reached out to her unbeknownst to me. She asked why she has never contacted me. My Ex stated that she thought I would get the message that since she never texted or contacted me, that she wasn't going to contact me.
Some days I feel good, but other days I remember the good times we had and feel really down that the person who made me feel so good and cared so much for me, wants nothing to do with me over the span of one day.
If you are in a committed relationship with someone please break up with them in person if it is safe to do so. Getting ghosted sucks.
My heart hurts :(
TL;DR: Girlfriend broke up with me via phone, agreed to meet up in person, and has ghosted me.
Submitted March 25, 2020 at 04:20PM by Igotthrownaway2 https://ift.tt/2UBAALB
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