Husband (M33) is being blamed by wife (F29) for his own infertility.

My wife and I found out in the last 6 months that I have become infertile. We have had two kids together, but I have since had some autoimmune health issues (ITP, PSC, and IBD) come up. The doctors are wondering if they are responsible but none of the medication causes low sperm count. We are still trying to get pregnant while I go through with a bunch of tests to try to pin point the cause. All of this while also seeing my doctors for my other health conditions. The longer we go the worse that it gets on our marriage.

Every month when she starts her period she melts down for the first few days and I have to manage going to work, the housework, and the kids. I get yelled at because she isn't pregnant, she tells me how bad it hurts her that she isn't pregnant and that I will never understand what she feels. I have never thought that or said that I would. The only thought that I have is that we are lucky to have the two kids that we have and I am seeing that her behavior is starting to affect them.

Her last period was the worst one yet. She is now telling me she can't go out anymore because it hurts to bad to see other people with babies. I tried to remind her that we have two children and that we should be grateful for them. She lost it on me and told me that my infertility is my own fault and that my health choices caused me to get sick. I am 5'7", 140 pounds eat well and exercise. The comment really hurt, and when I told her that she said she sticks by what she said.

She has been emotionally abusive in the past but most of it I could look past, this time I can't let it go. I feel like she is being really selfish and is using this as an excuse to emotionally abuse me more. I don't know what to do because I feel like as time goes on she will just become more and more of a monster to me and our kids.

TLDR: My wife and I have two kids, she wants another. Since having the last kid I have become infertile likely due to autoimmune issues I have been diagnosed with. I am a active 33 year old, not overweight, and I eat healthy but my wife blames me for being infertile because of my health choices. She won't back down on it and is becoming more and more emotionally abusive.

Submitted March 01, 2020 at 03:34PM by freakypeace11 https://ift.tt/2PAtPrp