My (23M) girlfriend (22f) of 5 years is constantly hounding me when I get off work and refuses to just let me decompress when I need to.

My (23M) Girlfriend (22F) Doesn’t understand that I would just like to relax after work.

I work 12 hour swing shifts at my job. That means that my schedule is rotating between day shift and night shift. When I get home all I want to do is decompress and let my mind and body relax.

The moment I walk in the door she is attached to me and pestering me for sex. I’m sure you’re going well that hardly sounds like a problem but it is exhausting to not be able to come home and just be.

I love her and never want to leave her but she is getting even more frustrated than I am because “we hardly have sex anymore” even though we are having it just as frequently as we were before we moved in. I’m at a loss the more I tell her I just want to relax I feel like the more resentment is building in her. Any advice?

TL;DR my girlfriend is persistently hounding me for sex when I am physically mentally and emotionally drained and gets upset when I decline.

Submitted February 23, 2020 at 05:09AM by elliott_33 https://ift.tt/3a1ibhl