I love him so much but this is starting to get to me. Wanted to preface this by saying that I love him and everything is great otherwise. Been together over a year and lived together for a year.
I’ve been trying to lose weight but sometimes slip up. He will make comments out of nowhere like “please don’t skip the gym” or “don’t forget to count calories.” He mentions he would no longer be attracted to me if I gained any more weight. He also points out when I am bloated, which is often, partially due to PCOS. I have gained weight. About 20 lbs which I would love to lose. But this is making it harder.
I feel really hurt because I know he’s trying to help motivate me but it is just making me upset. I felt like I was finally at a place where I didn’t hate my body after years of feeling disgusted by myself. It just feels kinda endless.
I’m talking to him tonight, but how would you all proceed?
TL;DR- boyfriend comments on my weight. He’s trying to be encouraging but it’s hurtful.
Submitted October 01, 2019 at 01:48PM by garbagethrowawayaact https://ift.tt/2okZliy
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