My boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year. He recently came back from a work trip abroad. When he came back, I immediately noticed something was wrong. He wouldn’t let me kiss him or initiate any physical contact beyond cheek/forehead kisses. He seemed ill and chalked it up to being contagious from the cold/flu.
Today, I noticed something was more off than usual and pushed further until he finally told me what happened. While returning from a club, he was assaulted by two girls and that took advantage of him and he was too drunk to stop it from happening. It didn’t sound like anything more than kissing/groping happened. He was very upset as he was telling me and it really pains me to see him this way. Since he’s been back, he’s been to the doctor to run blood tests and he’s still waiting on the results. The preliminary tests have all come back as negative for any STDs. His main concern is I won’t want to be with him if he contracted something. I trust him implicitly and really care for his well-being. I’ve never really experienced anything like this. How do I support him through this?
tl;dr: boyfriend was taken advantage of while drunk, what can I do to help him through this?
Submitted October 26, 2019 at 03:44PM by Kraftndinner https://ift.tt/2WoWIt6
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