I [24F] introduced my friends [17F/19F] to a mutual friend [30M] and I feel uncomfortable/responsible about it
Last year, I was with 2 friends of mine when I ran into another friend of mine. I introduced them, and they went on to follow each other on social media. We hung out as a group a few times at our local sports team games, but then they started hanging out with him without me, at his house. They still invite me each time but sometimes i'm busy and I can't.
They are 2 young girls and it makes me feel uneasy. Of course one is 19, she's an adult she can make her own decisions but still. He was never 'creepy', to me, he's a good friend and I don't think he would ever do anything to them. But its getting borderline worrisome, i'll admit.
Their birthdays were last month and he got them both a gift card to Victoria Secret, he knows they both like shopping there for sports wear and whatnot. It just seems inappropriate to me because of the store choice. He could have given them a visa prepaid card and told them to use it on whatever they wanted. But the distinction is whats making me uncomfortable.....especially because we've been close friends for a while and i've never gotten a birthday gift from him.....i'm not saying he should have, its just odd.
I obviously can't control who my friends hang out with, and I can't control what he does. I just feel so responsible. What can I do in this situation?
TL;DR; Introduced my 2 girl friends to a 30 year old man who bought them inappropriate gift card for their birthday.
Submitted October 01, 2019 at 12:25PM by depressedcheesecake https://ift.tt/2nEvsJW
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