I (33/female) recently married to my husband (31/male) who has convinced himself I have made or am still making porn!!!

Hey everyone. First time posting. I need advice!!! I’m 33/female. Husband is 31/male. Been together 2 years, married only 2 months ago. Long story short(ish)...

Right before we got married he asked/basically accused me of being in porn movies. So bizarre and really out of nowhere but he had convinced himself of it for some reason I have still yet to figure out. I’ve done nothing for him to not trust me or for him to think I ever lie to him. We got into a major fight about it and eventually moved past the issue. Fast forward a couple months to a few days ago..

I was using his brothers computer and was just being nosy for no good reason and went into his internet search history. I saw that someone had logged into my email just a few days prior and opened up all my mailboxes. Obviously I knew it was my husband bc the date it was accessed only he was home. Curiosity struck me so when my husband was asleep I went into his search history on his phone to see if he does that often.

Not only did I see that he did log in to my email again but HE IS ON GOOGLE SEARCHING TO FIND ME IN PORN MOVIES. WHICH LET ME TELL YOU, IS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN BC IVE NEVER MADE ONE. He had searched for so many little descriptions of me with the word “porn” next to it. Seriously, insert old town where we used to live) porn, (insert this new place we moved to) porn, just married now porn, mom is a cop porn (my mom wasn’t even a cop but she did work for the police dept). Every tattoo I have he had searched for individually with the word “porn” next to it. I can’t remember all of them but there were A LOT. Two days later (tonight) I checked again just to see. Since then he’s searched for “Jewish girl with green eyes porn”, literally searching my name on random porn websites..omg..get this one, I have a chiropractor appt that I made and he searched for “chiropractor porn”!!

Ah this just seems so crazy even as I’m writing it out. Anyway, my question is DO I BRING THIS UP TO HIM!!?? Or HOW do I bring this up to him?? I want to, no no, I NEED to bc this is crazy and rude and I’m friggin pissed. But I WENT THROUGH HIS PHONE! So right from the start I look like the bad person here bc I snooped.. BUT I AM SO OFFENDED AND FEEL DISRESPECTED AND I NEED ADVICE!! Is my husband crazy??Please help. Thank you.

TL/DR: my husband of a couple months has convinced himself I have made/I am still making porn videos. I snooped in his phone and his internet search history shocked the hell out of me. He’s obsessively on google trying to find something (which he won’t bc they don’t exist). I’m just looking for some advice on how to approach this conversation that I need to have with him.

Submitted January 30, 2019 at 02:35AM by jacketpockets1 http://bit.ly/2TnpYOm