I made a post yesterday on r/sex , about my boyfriend that didn't want to put a condom, we used to not wear one because I didn't mind having yeast infections, I was enduring. Put now I can't stand it, (I'm reallyyyy sensitive) So I told him we need to wear one. When we put one he get soft (I don't know if it's the right term, | speak french so sorry if it's not!), anyway, he really don't want to. We got a talk today, we were talking, I remember him saying that it's not he's problem if I tend to have yeast infection, so I told him it's not my problem if he can't wear a condom. I understand he's disappointed, because we are used to not wear it, but he can't respect my choice. I told him it's either a condom or no sex at all, it may sound "strict" or even "manipulative" but no, it's my health, I'm sick of having to do 6 days treatment, it itch, and smell.…….He told me no sex. I know how it's going to end, either he will cheat on me because we don't have sex, sex is really important in a relationship, or we're going to break up. I don't want either of these, i love him, we live together I want a future with him but I don't think he is feeling the same, he really don't care about my health. Women have to take the pills because men don't have one, why? i don't know. Women have period, We carry babies, and give birth, we tend to have uti more then men, can men (by men I don't mean EVERY MEN) at least wear a condom without complaining about how difficult it is? I told this to my bf, he told me "we work harder, we pay bills, I bring you to work, I pay groceries" it's not the same thing I'm talking about health. Anyway, What should I do? Should I go? Should I stay? I love him but saying things like this it's not okay. He need to respect my choices. * we don’t want kids either of us, so it’s not to get me pregnant or whatever reason related to children*
TL;DR! : boyfriend don’t want to wear a condom even tho my coochie health requires it, it’s either that or no sex, he choose no sex, I’m scared of him cheating. Should we break up? We talked about it and nothing seems to make him happy.
Submitted May 03, 2022 at 07:04PM by Intelligent_Ad_38 https://ift.tt/SZc7hYW
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