I think my friend flirts with the guy who’s interested in me because of her ego problems and i’m thinking about ending our friendship

I’m(26F) friends with a girl(26F) and i highly suspect she suffers from some kind of personality disorder. I’m currently in therapy myself and sometimes i bring her up in our sessions and my therapist also kind of confirmed it.

To cut it short i think she might be either a narcissist or a histrionic. Possibly both.

We both use bumble and she met up with a guy through bumble a couple weeks ago. She said sex was really good and they’ve been talking everyday since then. A few days later she found out he’s active on many other apps mainly for sex. She expressed her disappointment but i didn’t think it was a big deal for from the way she expressed it.

About a week ago i stumbled upon his profile on bumble and showed it to my friend because she was sitting right next to me. She swiped right on him and was really frustrated that we matched. She couldn’t even hide it. She decided to talk to him from my bumble account and she was even more crashed when she saw he was really enthusiastic about me.

Fast forward to now, a guy started to show interest in me which she also noticed. But she flirts with him non stop. I know for sure that he’s not her type and i hinted i’m interested in him.

I seriously think she’s doing it as some kind of revenge. The problem here is i suspect she’s trying to lower my self esteem as well. Although she herself admitted she thinks he likes me, she implies he flirts with her too and it’s not special to me. But i think he’s just being friendly with her and even when he’s talking to both of us i’m always the one he looks at.

I’m tired of her reflecting her ego problems on me, Is that a stupid reason to break off a friendship with someone?

On a side note whenever i like someone she thinks they wouldn’t be into me, every. single. time. I once dated an overweight guy who was very much into me and we went on 4 days in the first week, it was amazing so far. his profile photo on whatsapp was from when he was slimmer and when she saw that she said he would dump me if he ever looked like that again.

I sometimes feel like she uses me to restore her ego and i find it very immature that she resented me because that guy liked me and now tries to flirt with a guy who seemingly has an interest in me. I feel like we don’t have a healthy friendship.

So i want to know if i’m overreacting by wanting to distant myself from her.

Tldr: we saw the guy my friend had sex with on bumble and my friend took my phone and swiped right on him& we matched. She was really frustrated that he liked me.

There’s a guy who shows interest in me and she one-sidedly flirts with him to restore her ego. I don’t know how i should go about this. Is that a enough of a reason to end a friendship?

Submitted May 03, 2022 at 04:50PM by greisenn https://ift.tt/k4hoBXw