Hi everyone, so my ex 30 (m) recently broke up with me 30 (f). As recently as last thuesday actually. I was absolutely devestated. He said he just hadn't the same feelings for me that I had for him. I kicked him out of my apartment simply because I couldn't look at him at that point.
Later that day I thought to myself that everything seemed a bit strange and sudden, so I asked if he had been with someone else and he said yes. We had a mature conversation about everything and even though he had been cheating I wasn't that mad, just sad and broken.
Forward to this week:
I text him saying that when he drops of my stuff, he should do it while I wasn't at home because I couldn't handle seeing him, knowing he was okay and moved on with someone else. He asked if it wouldn't help me to be able to answer those questions in my head, but I said that I'm not even sure if I wanted these answers. Like when did he meet her etc.
Turns out that he got Fb dating while we where still together - to get an ego boost as he put it. I was like wtf? But that's not the cherry on top of the cake, it gets better. He also told me that it wasn't that big of a deal because he didn't texted anyone, before she liked him. What? Turns out their first date was while he was still dating me! What a douchebag! And last but not least he texted with her while he spended some days at my place, while I was there!! What kind of a person does that?
At first when he broke up I was very civil and told him that I didn't had the need or the want for beeing angry at him. Boy did that change!
I called him out for being one of the most respectless and selfish people I've ever met. He doesn't care about other peoples feelings as long he is well and satisfied. I told him that I have lost every ounce of respect for him. Seriously he cried when he broke up with me because he couldn't handle to hurt me! What a bunch of crap! I told him that I almost feel sorry for the new girl, because she doesn't even know what an idiot he is! When I asked him what make him think that dating someone else while we still where together was a good idea he couldn't come up with an answer. We dated for almost a year!
Still the outbreak that I had just lifted this weight of from me, and believe it or not I was happy. Actually happy. Becuase I learned that he really isn't worth anything. Not my time, my feelings or my tears.
Yes I still think about it a lot, but now I don't feel this hole in my chest I only feel relief. And sure the doubts about me ever finding someone new and this open future is kinda scary, but at least I don't have to feel that pain from the break up anymore. Eventhough he is an idiot, him telling me all of that just made all of my feelings vanish, and I got the closure. It's time for me to pick up the pieces and move on because honestly I would much rather be single than being with a coward like him.
TL;DR! - My ex bf cheated went on dates and texted other girls while we where still together.
Submitted August 21, 2021 at 04:26AM by chooseausername1906 https://ift.tt/3jbtrzb
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