My (30m) girlfriend (30f) goes to stay over at her single attractive close friend's house sometimes, I can't shake feeling insecure.

My (30m) girlfriend (30f) has a close single male friend (30m) who she used to live with. They've been friends for 10 years and we have only been dating 3-7months. The both of them are quite close including his 4yr old son, the 3 of them come across as a sort of family unit and she's mentioned that the dad must talk a lot about her because the son talks about her a lot too. She has also said in passing that she loves the dad but that the dad hasn't had time for anyone besides his son. When she goes to visit home she always sleeps over at his house and ignores my message of a simple, "hope the journey was alright. how was your day?" until maybe a day or 2 later, whereas normally she replies in a couple hours. (As a note I just sent the one text in the day I leave it at that, as she might just be busy)

Now before anyone goes all haywire on me, I don't want her to stop seeing him, or change their relationship. That would be crazy. This is a relationship prior me that is important to her, however I can't stop feeling insecure and I don't know if she has/realises she may have feelings for him? Due to where we are in our relationship, we are exclusive, she hasn't introduced me to her family/home town yet and so haven't personally seen their dynamic yet.

TL:DR I'm a grown ass man who is insecure about his girlfriend sleeping over at a dilfs house. I don't like how this is making me feel.

Edit: "she loves the dad" was phrased in a love like a close friend. Same way that both of us have used to describe our individual friends before, the difference is I don't have any female friends that are that close.

Submitted August 21, 2021 at 08:43AM by stevealan098 https://ift.tt/3CZcAqW