Me (28M), and these two friends (27F and 28M) first met when we were in high school and we have been friends ever since. Let's call her A, and let's call him B.
"A" broke up a long term abusive relationship about a year ago. She was happy being single, and we started having sex just as friends with benefits. I don't like her in any other way, I just consider her as a good friend, and the sex felt great. Eventually I found out that she was also sleeping with B, and I don't really care because we were not exclusive.
In the meantime, I met my current girlfriend, an amazing woman who I like very much, and we've been dating for almost 2 months.
The thing is: A is pregnant. The baby could be mine or B's because we both had sex with her in the same time period. This happened before I got into an exclusive relationship with my girlfriend. A says she wasn't seeing anyone else. She doesn't want an abortion.
If the baby is mine, I'll for sure take responsibility. If the baby is B's, then well, we have a bigger problem. B doesn't really care about this whole situation, he's been indifferent, and most likely he wouldn't do anything to help her or the baby. He is my friend, but he's a douche. If B chooses to be absent, I'd probably take responsibility for the child even if it's not mine. It's not like I want to be a father or anything, but I feel like I can't leave A in this situation alone, and I feel really sorry for the kid. The 3 of us messed up, someone needs to fix it.
I'm already in a difficult position here, and I really don't know how to tell all of this to my current girlfriend without making her run away from me (that'd be an understandable reaction). I really like her, and I don't want to lose her.
TLDR: I had a fwb relationship with a friend of mine, she's pregnant, the baby might be mine, and I don't know how to tell my girlfriend about this situation
Submitted August 22, 2021 at 09:00AM by 0_00000_0 https://ift.tt/3zbZlAV
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