TL;DR Am I overreacting by being hurt that he wants to watch porn during sex?
Yesterday, I (29f) and my fiancĂ© (36m) were at home when he dropped a hint that he was in the mood. I began to stimulate him orally. Despite being on my period and not looking or feeling my best, I showed enthusiasm. What ceased this activity was him blurting out “Would it be a turn off if I watched porn while you did that?” I immediately stopped and felt extremely hurt. 1. Because he would rather watch someone else’s girlfriend than his own (he watches a lot of amateur/girlfriend porn). Why exclude me from an intimate moment together? 2. He knows my ex was a porn addict and found ways to watch it whenever we were intimate. My fiancĂ© knows this was a very dehumanising and humiliating experience for me all through my past relationship. I was used as a tool. The rest of the day was awkward and I am still feeling very hurt. He said he has no need to apologise and sulked for half an hour because he didn’t get to finish. He has many redeeming qualities and I love him very much but in that instant I have found myself unattracted to him and undesirable and hurt. Am I being dramatic?
Submitted August 20, 2021 at 04:24PM by wombat3923 https://ift.tt/2W50s7r
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