My girlfriend pulled down my pants and underwear at her friends house with several people watching. We had a lot going and I want to forgive her but don't know how to. Any ideas?

We're 24 and I was picking her up last night from her friend's house. She wasn't ready yet so I came in and waited for a bit. They were talking about weird stuff and then I got up for a drink and my girlfriend came over and pulled down my pants and my underwear and then slapped my butt in front of everyone. I left the house and screamed what the fuck at her. Everyone just thought this was hilarious. They were all drunk.

Alright, so then she said sorry but just barely. I said fuck it, it's in the past. But then I see a video of this on Snapchat. At that point I was incredibly upset with her and went off on the phone and she just said chill and didn't apologise at all.

I live with her, I've been with her for over a year, and we had a really great thing going before this. I want to forgive her but don't know if I can and I need a clear and direct apology that is sincere. She betrayed my trust, showed no respect, and betrayed me. Any ideas on how to move forward?

Tl;dr - my girlfriend pulled down my pants and underwear in front of her friends and slapped my butt. This was recorded and posted to Snapchat. She hasn't said a sincere apology. We had a future and it hurts me that she did this and I don't want to throw it away. Any ideas on how to move forward?

Submitted March 21, 2021 at 12:20AM by Monkey_Monkey313 https://ift.tt/3tEkcK2