I made a throwaway because my coworkers know my Reddit username and I am embarrassed.
TL;DR my girlfriend wont let me have sex with her unless I dress up as Sasuke from Naruto and won't tell me why, she gets really upset when I ask about it.
I started dating my girlfriend 2 years ago after we met at an event held at a TTRPG shop. She's into anime, manga, and cosplay. I've watched some shows like Naruto, Demon Slayer, and My Hero with her, but it isn't really my thing. When we first got together, there was a lot of frequent, and to be honest, really great sex. But as the time passed we had sex less and less, which was fair considering that she had started a new job and I started to pick up more hours at my own workplace due to the pandemic. A few months ago however, my gf approached me after dinner with the topic of wanting to try something new in the bedroom. I said sure, and asked what she had in mind, assuming she wanted to try anal or some light bondage. To my surprise, she told me that she wanted to dress up as Naruto and have me dress as Sasuke, and roleplay ninja sex with her. I already knew that she loved anime and cosplay and she's been obsessed with this pairing since I've known her, and she made me watch Naruto on our third date and showed me the fan-comics she had. I told her I was okay with it but It was still weird to me. In the end I guess the only reason i decided to oblige her because I really wanted to have sex.
When she finished making the costumes, she gave me a "storyline" to follow in the roleplay and we acted it out. I felt awkward and started to regret saying yes but it seemed like she really enjoyed it, so I kept dressing up and roleplaying for her. She didn't always dress up for sex, I didn't mind either way, but every time that I initiated sex with her she always pissed and moaned at me until I at least put on the Sasuke wig and headband. Even when I was tired and we were fooling around just before bed she wanted me to wear it. I've since stopped the roleplay thing but even now she will literally get up in the middle of foreplay or making out to grab it from the dresser to make me put it on.
I'm sick and tired of having to wear it just to have some sex, and I don't know what to tell her. I asked her if she wants to have normal sex and she says yes, later, because it's just not as "fun". But when that time comes she always makes up some excuse. I don't understand why she coerces me into wearing the Sasuke cosplay. I think she's taking it way too far. She gets upset at me every time I ask her if we can just have sex without either of us dressing up and gives me the cold shoulder when I try to bring it up. I'm tired of being Sasuke, I just want to be her boyfriend again in bed. I'm close to throwing the cosplays in the trash so she'll stop asking me to wear it. I really don't want to lose her over something as stupid as homemade ninja costumes. I can’t ask my friends for advice because I know they’ll clown on me. How do I approach this topic without hurting her feelings again? She really means a lot to me and I want her to see things from my perspective so we can get past this rift in our relationship.
Submitted January 23, 2021 at 04:59PM by Apprehensive_Hat_822 https://ift.tt/39ZJaex
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