My old best friend [21F] asked to meet my [20M] daughter and wants to come back into my life after she found out I got married with my wife [28F]

I had been best friends with this girl for my whole life ever since the day I was born. Growing up I loved her and wanted to be with her for the longest time. I don't think you guys understand; I wanted her for my whole life basically and then she told me she alsp had feelings for me, but ended up playing me like a fucking moron.

Everytime she would get a BF she would automatically block me and only have my number saved. Then she would add me back and get close with me again. I was close to actually dating her and she would reject me then ask me to reschedule, but she would always leave me hanging.

Well I got sick and tired of it and I didn't block her, but I distanced myself from her and when she unblocked me after her breakup I didn't accept any of her requests or respond to her messages. It hurt a lot, but thankfully I got over her and got with my wonderful wife. We had a daughter together and recently got married.

Now I only have feelings of anger towards her. Yes, it's her life her choices on who she gets to be with, but she would always make plans with me and ditch me to be with somebody else and I thought we were friends for all those years. Anyways, my guess is that one of her friends who I also talk to told her about my situation and he stupidly set it up so that we met face to face again.

He invited me to a car meet with him since I hand not taken out my car like that for a while and when I met up with him she was with him and he did not tell me at all. She asked to talk and I told her I couldn't, but she told me that she wanted to be friends how we were before again and she told me she wanted to meet my daughter and my wife and that she was happy for me. I told her I didn't think it was right and she cried when I told her I didn't really want to see her anymore.

Yes I told my wife about the incident and she knows all about my history with her because she was there for me when I was being played by my old friend. She said she wouldn't have a problem with meeting her or letting her meet pur daughter because she trusted me and she told me she just doesn't want it to cause any problems for me.

I am feeling like a terrible friend for acting this way to her, but it's hard. I don't know if I should let her at least just meey my daughter, but I need some advice from you guys on whether or not I should try to be friends with her again or just let go of this friendship I've had with her for my whole life basically.

Tldr: Old best friend who I have known since I was a baby asked me to please let her meet my baby and to let her back in my life, I don't know what I should do.

Submitted January 23, 2021 at 01:35PM by throwrabornejdj https://ift.tt/3qNCC9S