My husband (40) is very close friends with a woman (52). She is happily married. Husband and I have been married 19 years. No signs of cheating at all. Thing is, I don't think he's cheating with her. They just have a great time together. They laugh, joke around around, stay up late drinking when our families camp together...I have often walked in on them having a beer and having great conversations. They hunt a lot together along with other people as well, and they talk about hunting and fishing a lot. My husband is constantly pushing me to spend more time with this family, at the other woman's suggestion. We are currently camping for a week with them, and will be spending another week in September. She is very nice, and very generous. But it hurts my feelings that he has such a great time with her, teasing her and goofing around, when he and I don't do that at all. He's pretty stern around me, and if I tried to do those things, he'd laugh and tell me hell no. She plans all these vacations for us to go on that he would never want to do if she wasn't there.
Any thoughts on what my boundaries should be here? It's a relatively new situation, and I'm at a loss of what to think. Her husband doesn't seem to mind, but he hunts together with them too. I hate hunting, and I have to stay home and care for our two young kids anyway.
Tldr:husband is best friends with a woman. They're having a great time together during family vacations, and my feelings are getting hurt. What to do?!!
Submitted August 02, 2020 at 01:44PM by cupateatoo https://ift.tt/30mjgyf
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