I (25F) can't really get into this guy I'm dating (28M) for 2 months and I'm not sure if my gut is right or if I just need to give it more time?

I've been dating this guy Josh for about 2 months now, and on paper he should be my perfect guy. We get along super well, have the same sense of humor, the same values and beliefs, he has his life together, he is super nice to me, the sex is amazing, yadda yadda. The only problem is that he doesn't give me that butterflies in my tummy feeling. I enjoy hanging out with him and look forward to seeing him, but it kind of feels like if I didn't get to see him or if he told me he didn't want to see me anymore I wouldn't really be that upset.

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The only other relationship I've been in was about 4 years long and was very intense at first, I almost felt "addicted" to him when we first started dating. It wasn't a great relationship overall and I wasn't treated as well as I should have been, and we've been broken up for just shy of 2 years now.

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I'm pretty confused by my feelings and not really sure what's normal and what's not in terms of beginning a relationship. Am I not feeling super mushy gushy just because I don't know him that well yet? Do I just need to give it more time to start feeling more comfortable with him? Or is this a sign that I'm just not that into him and I should let him know before he gets more invested?

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TL;DR: not sure if the lack of butterflies in my tummy is a sign that I should stop seeing this guy or if I should give it more time for those feelings to develop

Submitted February 03, 2020 at 01:34PM by duracraft_fan https://ift.tt/31mqNfi