I (39f) dated a (47m) after his divorce. He's reconciling with his Ex Wife (46F) should I show her the texts he's been sending me

I (39f) dated a (47M) who was recently divorced for about 7 months. He was a really nice guy it seemed, we had a super fun relationship and I expected for it to last as we were building a nice connection. In retrospect, I can see it was to soon after his 20 year marriage broke up and he was not ready to get into anything serious. He broke up with me about 3 months ago.Recently he started texting me, apologizing for how he ended things and that he really cared about me and he's really confused etc. I thanked him and wished him well and said I understand he is going through a rough time, etc. A couple weeks later he texts again, how he missed me etc. Then I find out he and his ex are working on reconciliation and she may be back living in the house , thinking I've heard the last of him I was surprised when he texted me AGAIN about how he missed me, couldn't stop thinking about me, regrets ending things and he would always love me and misses me so much it hurts etc. I simply asked him if his ex-wife would be upset to know what he was texting me. He replied yes.

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Here is the thing, I don't want this guy back. I blocked him after that last exchange. I realize he was really trying to emotionally manipulate me through those texts and I think trying to get me to beg for him to come back. I don't really know for sure what he motivations were but no dice. I realize I've done nothing wrong here but I'd sure like to know if I was her. They had a pretty co-dependant marriage and she is the martyr type it seems. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not. I feel sorry for her I guess.

TL;DR A guy I dated is reconciling with his ex wife. He has been texting me his regrets on ending our relationship, I blocked him but am wondering if I should tell/show his ex wife what he's been sending me?

Submitted November 22, 2019 at 05:14PM by weegeeboltz https://ift.tt/2QLSniS