My boyfriends parents planned a “family only” vacation over thanksgiving for 5 days. I was specifically told that I was not invited and I could not come by his parents. I was very upset over this because we’ve been together almost 3 years and we’re not teenagers, plus we live together. My boyfriends idea was for me to just show up (he’s meeting them there) and I feel that would put me in a very awkward position. Basically, my boyfriend planned to go with or without me, I was not really apart of the plans at all. Usually we switch off holidays and have spent every holiday together since we met. My boyfriend doesn’t understand why this is so upsetting. At first, he said that he will forget the trip and stay with me. Now, he came up with that idea where I just show up. I said I wasn’t comfortable with that so now he’s just going alone without me.
I feel like this is a deal breaker but i need objective opinions. How would you feel in this situation?
TLDR: boyfriends parents planned a “family only” vacation over thanksgiving and is going with or without me.
Submitted November 24, 2019 at 01:30PM by throwawayyyy12333773 https://ift.tt/2pTDBeU
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