I know the title is a bit confusing but I can go more into detail down here. So my boyfriend has had this longtime friend whom he is very close to. I have been suspicious that there may have been something there between them in the past. My boyfriend claims to have had a crush on her at some point but that he moved on in order to keep their friendship. His girl best friend has always seemed to have dated everyone but him and I think he got the memo.
Anyway we have had arguments about this mostly because at first he claimed that there was no emotion between them and then changing the story to “ he once had a crush on her but that’s it”. The girl best friend seemed to have enjoyed his attention and the fact that he was always there for her when she needed him
Tonight I thought he almost called me by her name and stopped mid sentence. I confronted him and asked if he was accidentally going to state the wrong name and he denied.
He then proceeded to tell me how his ex had the same issue with his girl best friend and he didn’t understand why we both felt so threatened. I sarcastically laughed at the situation. Since I was like, great his ex girlfriend noticed their dynamic and came to the same conclusion.
So should I be worried? I’m a bit hurt that he’s comparing me to his ex in this regard and was wondering if she and I both have low self esteem to feel threatened by this girl
On the other hand I find it interesting that me and his ex came to the same conclusion. Not sure if this is a red flag that is going to bite me in the ass in the future.
Tl;dr Me and my boyfriend’s ex have had the same suspicions about the “girl best friend”
Submitted November 25, 2019 at 12:26AM by xhrg4 https://ift.tt/2sh3fuP
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