I am 35, 5'5 and 155 lbs. A size 6-8. I gained 15 lbs this year (I was 140 lbs earlier) bc of a new job.
My husband gets really upset when I eat junk food like cupcakes, donuts, pastries. He says passive aggressive comments, teases me, then complains, then tries to restrict me, then gets mad. He has sad some pretty mean stuff, like comparing me to my thinner friends, pointing out my new double chin, and calling me a drug addict.
I have tried talking to him about this but with no progress. It usually ends with me in tears and he feels bad and stops for a while. I have tried telling him that I am happy with how I look. He says its about my health but I literally work out every day M-F at 8am after dropping our kids off at school and before going to work. I try to only eat a sweet thing once a day, though on stressful days I might eat more. My new job has been stressful so I have been stress eating, but that is starting to die down. I am working on losing the weight gain and his judgment just makes it so much harder and worse.
Tldr: my husband complains about my eating, but I think I am healthy and look good. What do I do?
Submitted October 25, 2019 at 11:35PM by ladylastyear https://ift.tt/2JmEHWM
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