Myself and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half. We are long distance and only spend our weekends together, switching off who's house we go to every second weekend. We live with house mates so our only space together is our bedrooms. He told me in a call that he does love being with me and spending time with me but he has started to find ourweekends boring. He feels like he can't do the things we wants to do like code and play video games because I'm there and the weekends feel unproductive. He said it puts him in a bad mood. We do go out and do things together, go for walks, brunch but he thinks our weekends have become too routine. He wants to be able to do his own thing (like spend all day coding) while I'm there, and spend a couple hours of the day with me. He said if things continue the way they are with having to spend all weekend doing things together he's going to crack at some point.
I wouldn't mind this too much if we lived together and saw each other all the time, but we only see each other on weekends and I feel a bit concerned that two days out of the week is too much for him. He doesn't like things becoming "routine" but it's hard to make every single weekend action packed and exciting, and when we live together life will be routine with exciting and new things here and there.
TL;DR Is it a bad sign for the future my boyfriend doesn't want to spend weekends doing things together?
Submitted March 28, 2019 at 02:56AM by alrighty101 https://ift.tt/2U3YK3K
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