My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. Over that time we have had a lot of obstacles that we have supported each other through. I have been there for him through unemployment, crazy custody battle and other issues. I love him a lot.
We broke up recently because of a nasty custody dispute with his ex wife. I was fearful that she would make false claims and I could lose my job. We agreed to get back together once it ended.
It was resolved and initially he didnt want to get back together then easily relented. While discussing why he was hesitant he stated that I wasnt attractive enough for him and that he wasnt attracted to me. For context Im 5'7" and 150 lbs and quite average looking. There's nothing "wrong" with my appearance.
Im incredibly hurt and do not think I can stay with him. I feel so ugly now. I have supported him through thick and thin. I want to maintain the life we have with his kids. But I dont think I can. Ive forgiven him for much bigger things but this feels like a last straw.
Tdlr: My boyfriend told me he wasnt attracted to me 3 years in after I gave him a lot of support in his life. Is this something we can work through?
Submitted February 24, 2019 at 10:51AM by pitykitty https://ift.tt/2tCdBTl
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