I am newly married and living with my husband for the first time. We practically lived together before with the amount of time we spent together and he used to stay the night most nights. Now that we are married I’m woken up pretty much every other night to my husband masterbating in bed. Like 3 am. I’m actually getting bad sleep and am groggy at work because after seeing something like that it usually takes me a while to fall back asleep after.
He’s a pretty conservative and traditional guy too so we don’t talk about that stuff and I don’t know if I should bring it up because it’s not like we don’t have sex. I kind of feel like I’m not enough if he is doing this all the time? I know that’s not the case but this whole situation is just messing with my head.
Am I overreacting or has anyone else experienced this? Side note: my husband is brilliant so I am very shocked he’s stupid enough to pull something like this and think I wouldn’t notice? Advice?
*TL;DR: my husband is masterbating in the middle of the night. What do I do? *
update after seeing first few comments: I’m comfortable talking to him about it, I just wanted to see if anyone had experienced this before. My husband and I communicate very well, I’m just not sure how to approach the subject. I can tell him anything and vise versa, this is just new territory for me.
Update 2: thank you to people who are offering helpful advice and not criticizing our relationship or drawing poor conclusion about our relationship based on a few paragraphs. It’s a new marriage and I’m 200% comfortable with my loving and supportive husband. Just new territory for me and curious to see other reactions before I handle it myself. It keeps me up for a while after because it turns me on but I don’t want to wake him up-kind of ironic. Please stop passing judgement on people you’ve never met. Thank you to those offering legitimate understanding and advice. My husband and I will have a discussion about it and figure out what works for us.
Submitted October 01, 2018 at 08:30AM by lettershark https://ift.tt/2NY2twM
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