So my mother(55f), fiance and I were looking for furnitures for our new apartment. At some point my mother told him, that he's strict with me(because he doesn't let me design our apartment as I wish, in our culture women choose the design etc. ), that i always have her back. That i look sad sometimes.(idk why she said that because I never complained about him to her, maybe I just look tired, because I go to our apartment after work and then back to my parents on the evenings) She said that because I'm pregnant probably. Not gonna lie, I was upset about not having the freedom to choose. I never talked about him, how it upsets me. It came out of nowhere for him. I'm a quiet person with anxiety.
After we went home.(mom and I, I didn't move in yet) I tried to call him. He refused to take my call. At the evening he called me and went off on me, yelling. I'm a hypocrite. I'm talking shit about him(which is not true, never talked bad about him). Who the hell do I think I am. I ruined our relationship. He felt shame. That he's now suicidal. And at the end he told me he loves me and hung up.
The leasing is both on of our names. I'm just upset. My stomach aches. We decided to keep the baby just yesterday. The other day he was against the pregnancy.
I don't want to talk to him anymore. I wish I could just vanish. Not suicidal but just empty.
Any advice?
Tl;dr: my fiance is mad at me because my mother told him that he should let me design our apartment as I wish/ treat me Better. And now we don't talk because he felt bad about it.
Submitted February 10, 2023 at 09:17PM by Few_Coffee_3060 https://ift.tt/yOf1hKe
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