Me (24m) and my gf (22f) have been together for over 2 years. If I go out with friends for a night out she’ll ask me not to put the bedroom light on when I get back which is fair enough, I always use the torch on my phone to make sure I don’t walk into anything.
Over the last couple of months there’s been a couple of nights where my gf has randomly gone into a bad mood for no reason on a night. The nights will be going fine and then she’ll just start ignoring me and say she’s sleeping on the sofa. Whenever I stop bothering to ask why and just go to bed myself, she’ll come into the bedroom a few hours later when I’m asleep and out the light on. I’ve asked what’s wrong with her and she refuses to say, she’ll either not answer or just say nothing.
I asked her not to put the light on and she didn’t respond. Then last night was the same thing. We were having a good night just watching tv and then out of nowhere she just refuses to answer me when I talk to her and lays down on the sofa. I mention going to bed and she just says she isn’t. I get ready for bed and just leave her and she came to bed 2-4 hours later and out the light on, waking me up. I asked her what was wrong that was meaning she’s doing this and why she’s saying she’s sleeping on the couch then coming to bed waking me up. I told her if she does it again to not put the light on and she just said she has to to see where she’s going and that it’s her bedroom aswell. Does anyone have any advice on how to handle this situation?
Tl;dr my gf has started ignoring me on certain nights and says she’s sleeping on the sofa and then proceeds to come to bed hours later and turn the light on, waking me up. Does anyone have any advice?
Submitted February 10, 2023 at 12:46AM by Any_Can5361 https://ift.tt/EV7DvKF
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