concerned father of a daughter that is in a toxic relationship with an insecure narcissist (20f 23m)
I'm a concerned father of a 20yo daughter in a toxic relationship with a 23yo male insecure narcissist. Other than giving my daughter advice and being a confidant, I have avoided interfering with her relationship until now. They have been together for just over a year, and he is rapidly taking control of her life little by little. He is isolating her from friends and family. Does not approve of hardly any of her plans or time spent with others. He is a freeloader and has been disrespectful to her mother in our home. He is constantly leaving her and manages to convince her to take him back a day later. This happens weekly. I tried to have a talk with him, and he immediately took a physical defensive stance in which I politely told him that would be a big mistake. He basically refused to accept any of my advice, defended himself, and opposed all of my concerns, twisted my words so he could become offended. She is briefly relieved when he leaves, but he continues to convince her that he is going to change. I'm trying to encourage her to stand tall and get control of her life, but fear she doesn't have the strength. Any suggestions
TL;DR Daughter has narcissistic bf that is isolating her and controlling her life
Submitted February 07, 2023 at 01:18PM by ThrowRA_elppop https://ift.tt/BtHFbZv
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