I (f20) have been talking to this person (m22) for a while. We live in different cities and only get to see each other every few months. We love each other so much and feel a really deep connection. We talk about it all the time and how much we want to be in a relationship. We're both still seeing other people but we had a discussion about not really feeling entirely comfortable doing that on our own ends, as well as feeling really really jealous knowing the other is seeing other people. We're really scared to commit because we're scared we're just going to end up hating eachother but we love each other so much and we just don't know what to do. I suggested taking a step back and not being relationshippy at all, not going on dates when we see each other, not sleeping together, not saying I love you, not being mushy or whatever, being strictly friends right now, but he said he doesn't really want to do that. I don't really want to do that but I do feel like it could save us some hurt in the long run.
In your experience does long distance ever work? How do you make it work? Are we just going to end up hating eachother? There is a potential end in site to the distance, in about a year and a half where one of us could potentially be moving to the others city for work.
Tldr: we love each other but long distance is scary. Has anyone had any luck with long distance? How did you make it work?
Submitted February 09, 2023 at 07:59PM by Apprehensive-Sea-657 https://ift.tt/rbIhpsq
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