Hi, The most feared outcome has come. I found out 2 weeks ago that my girlfriend of nearly 3 years has cheated on me through accidental social media tagging (I’ll skip the details, but photos came up that showed them both on a weekend trip vacation). I remember this weekend “family trip” she went on 2-3 months ago, where she wasn’t answering our usual evening messages. (I was a bit worried at the time, but she came back apologetic about being busy with family at the time).
I confronted her about it and she said she met him through social media and they chat a lot for a month, and he decided to visit the city and they met up and spent 2 days together and “things” did happen. She cried her eyes out and said that she felt so horrible after that. I told her that the trust has been broken and that we can’t go on.
Fast forward 1 week, and she keeps begging and crying me to give her 1 more chance, because she never met that guy again after that trip and that they haven’t spoken for weeks. She says she made the biggest mistake of her life and that she will give me access to all her socials.
I am still hurting, but keep swinging in my mind between giving her a chance or just moving on. It’s been 3 years you know, lots of memories and growth there. Everything seemed so perfect, people said that we look like a sweet couple. At the same time, I cannot get over the fact that she went ahead to go meet him, meaning she was excited to go.
TLDR: GF of 3 years cheats on 1 weekend trip. Conflicted as she is literally begging me to give her one more chance.
Update: I’m 31, she’s 25
Submitted February 06, 2023 at 05:44PM by GentleSoftsmith https://ift.tt/MqfG3Ri
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