My ex [24M] was the first person I ever slept with. [28F] He gave me HPV. We had a bad breakup, which I do not regret. Is it wrong to contact him to tell him my test results confirmed I have HPV because of him.

I sent him a message stating he gave me HPV. I have never slept with anyone else. He has had way more partners, lied to me about the amount of people. If he were honest about that bit, it wouldn’t bother me as much. Is this wrong to do? It is his sexual history. I blocked him afterwards since I want nothing to do with him.

My HPV will be cleared in six months to a year. He claims he didn’t know about. That he hasn’t been in a relationship in four years prior to that. Didn’t specify if he slept with anyone else in that time.

Same guy tried telling me he “doesn’t know what the big deal is about a colposcopy. It doesn’t hurt”. And used me even for my job.

TD;LR: Had sex for the first time ever in April with my now ex. He gave me HPV. Doctors thought it could’ve been cancer or HPV from abnormal pap smear results. Ex didn’t think the test itself was a big deal or that it hurt. I came back with a mild but positive case of HPV. Sent him a message confirming he has HPV. Is it wrong I only contacted him after my test results to let him know he has HPV. Then blocked him?

Submitted November 04, 2020 at 05:57PM by InformallyGuavaCado https://ift.tt/3oT8YzT