My[F23] boyfriend[M24] and I have been together for 4 years, we plan on getting engaged. His family accepts me with welcome arms and I feel nothing but love from his parents. However, his sister[F20] is another story. She’ll call me immature, dumb, etc. and just overall makes me feel like complete shit. Like she’ll go tell my bf about what I’m doing in the bathroom (wtf?) I am nothing but kind to her and even scold my bf for picking on her. She did admit to me that she hates when her brother/my bf is mean to her which is the reason I scold him (but isn’t this just playful sibling teasing). I feel like maybe she is jealous with how sweet and affectionate her brother is to me.
Anyways, idk wtf to do!?! I feel like this is an issue between her and my bf and she is taking her shit out on me. I can’t even tell if she genuinely hates me because there are days where she is kind to me ngl and I HAVEN’T DONE ANYTHING TO HER. I spoke to my bf about it and he told his mom, who told his sister. She ended up telling him that if I had an issue, I can confront her. I did and she made me cry. Then she ended up crying crocodile tears to discredit my feelings. She’s still so fucking mean to me and it’s causing a bigger riff between my bf and her (which I don’t want). I have dealt with years of abuse and bullying growing up, eating disorders, depression, and after recovery, his sister’s bullying is really affecting me mentally. How can I approach this issue and fix it? It had caused me to consider ending my 4 year relationship so I don’t have to deal with this shit and they can be better. I almost did break up but I don’t want his sister to be the reason. How should I approach this issue and resolve it? Should I just deal with a toxic future sister in law!??? It’s causing me anxiety.
TL;DR: My bf’s sis is mean to me because she is jealous of the affection I get from my bf. She is causing me to consider breaking up with my bf to avoid it. Should I break up or stay? If stay, how can I resolve this issue?
Submitted August 01, 2020 at 02:04AM by SetPositive https://ift.tt/3hUDbtY
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