sorry if some things are confusing i’m sorry i’m shaking and just my anxiety is through the roof.
so my bf and i never fight, and had a pretty healthy relationship. we have been together for 6 months and best friends as well. i had been staying at his place a lot. he asked me to do something on his computer for him one day when he was at work.im not one to snoop, especially when my trust is at 100% which it was. i never thought i’d find anything so what was the point ?
however his instagram was open on a browser and i saw a notification pop up that he got a dm from a girl. my gut told me told open it. so i did. he had bedding messaging and hitting on flirting setting girls. let me mention the girls are 17-18. my heart broke and my trust was absolutely shattered.
i confronted him when he got home from work and was ready to walk away. trust is the most important thing to me and once u break my trust it’s hard to earn back. however, i ended up confronting him bc he was crying and felt awful . that is was “ the worst mistake of his life”, etc.
i ended up staying . i love him and care for him. and this was the 1st like red flag. i told him i needed to see changes .
he blocked girls on insta , deleted snap , took off a phone passcode, and was spending more time off his phone and more time with me. i felt like he really did regret his decision and was genuine.
fast forward to last weekend. i went out of town to see friends and he hung out with his friends . his roommate had told me he was hitting on girls and had some over. i was upset that he would think about it again. i ask to see his phone and confronted him again and there was no evidence. as well as he and his roommate are not on good terms so i didn’t know what to truly believe .
now last night , i thought everything was good. we were laying down watching tv and he got on his phone. it was in the same eye path as the tv so it was in my line sight. i saw he has kik downloaded on his phone all the sudden . i feel like that is sneaky . and i’m not stupid i know what kik is used for.
i haven’t said anything due to having huge plans with his family today. my question is how do i confront him. and do i wait until after the event ?
i feel like a crazy gf which i don’t want to be. i just want the truthth. please help
TL;DR :my (23F) boyfriend (21M) of 6 months has been caught messaging inappropriate thing to high school girls . i think he is doing it again after i saw kik on his phone. how do i confront him and get the truth!
Submitted August 01, 2020 at 08:09AM by Electronic_Cupcake https://ift.tt/313LYTA
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