My fiancé has been upping the amount she goes out quite a bit and I don’t get to see her much anymore. Our work schedules already make it so I don’t see her much, as she works nights at a restaurant and I work days in an office. So she is going out nearly every night off, making it so I maybe get 2-3 nights a month to see her. We live together so I do see her here and there but it’s infrequent and not quality time.
Another problem this is bringing up with me is that I’m growing to resent her lifestyle. I work in a demanding job, it’s high stress and long hours but it pays well and has enabled a better lifestyle for us. She only work 25-30 hours a week and has the time and energy to go out and do fun stuff all the time. So I’ll come home from work exhausted and stressed out only to realize that she’s out enjoying herself. It just feels like I’m making these huge sacrifices to pay for things and she gets a bit of a free ride, not that she doesn’t pay bills but I pay a greater share. Am I wrong for feeling this resentment? I haven’t said much about it yet as I don’t want to come across as controlling or demeaning.
Tl;dr: I work all the time, fiancé doesn’t, we don’t see each other because of work schedules and her going out, and I’m growing to resent her for it.
Submitted August 25, 2020 at 04:49PM by mariners98 https://ift.tt/31ruP7B
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