My (30F) boyfriend (27M) often cancels plans we have made for random reasons at the last minute. I recently found out its because he wants to stay home and smoke weed. I'm mad but he doesn't see it as a big deal, am I right to be angry about this or are some people just like that?

We have been dating for a year and at least a couple times a month he will cancel plans for him to come to my house for random reasons that always felt like made up excuses but I put it down to him just not feeling like coming over which is fine, even though it was always last minute and frustrating at times. Recently he did this again but wouldn't answer my phone calls and would takes hours to reply to messages wondering where he was. The next day he admitted they he had been smoking with his housemates and didn't want to tell me. I was mad at finding this out knowing almost every time he's cancelled on me is because he's been smoking instead. I don't have a problem with smoking but cancelling plans on me because he'd rather stay home and smoke hurts and lying about it for a year. Am I right to be upset about this or should I just let it slide?

TLDR: Boyfriend cancels plans with me last minute so he can smoke weed instead. Is this ok?

Submitted May 25, 2020 at 05:45PM by lolawren https://ift.tt/2AcZdaA