Am I overreacting about my boyfriends “friend”?
My boyfriend has this “friend” who is a female. Lets call her Sarah. Sarah and him dated a few month prior to when I met him but never worked out due to something out of both of their control. I won’t go into detail but basically they would have continued dating if this “thing” didn’t happen. He was up front about her in the start of our relationship but I was always kinda iffy about their friendship. I’ve vocalized to him my feelings towards her and he said “she’ll always be his friend and he doesn’t like to burn bridges.”
Fast forward to last week, my boyfriend and I got into an argument about how he doesn’t comfort me enough when I need him to or doesn’t offer assistance when I’m clearly in need. For example: if I were to cut my hand while cooking, he would run away instead of asking if I need help or a towel or a bandage. Well yesterday, I got sun poisoning. I was puking and severely dehydrated. He never asked if I needed anything or what he could do to help. Instead, he just sat on the couch watching tv and playing on his phone. I was finally feeling better so I joined him on the couch. Well, he got up to go shower and left his phone. I wanted to continue watching the show so I grab his phone to press play (it was being streamed from his phone) and a message pops up from Sarah. Apparently they were joking around or something because she said lol and some other words indicating it.
I was so pissed and still am. I’m in the bedroom feeling like I’m on my deathbed and he’s choosing to sit in the living room and talk to her. I haven’t spoken to him since I confronted him about the message last night and don’t plan to. He’s upset at me now because I’m giving him the silent treatment but I’m so upset that I don’t know what to even say.
Tl:dr Am I overreacting about my boyfriends “friend”?
Submitted May 26, 2020 at 06:47AM by fancybutton147 https://ift.tt/3goXsb6
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