Hi Reddit,
I live in a share house with 4 other people, I’ve been living here now for 3 years.
One of the housemates let’s call him David has always tried to make cringeworthy jokes to me and thinks he’s really funny. He always thinks he’s right and said little insults to me I.e why do you buy this brand of food, it’s so bad and always asks me about my ex boyfriends.
I was dating a guy who was a little bigger and his response was “why did you date him? He was such a douche and did the bed break when you were with him”
One night ( a few months ago) he wanted to watch a movie and I agreed. He turned the lights off and halfway through the movie I didn’t feel comfortable. I explained to him I was tired and wanted to go to my room. I left and he started sending me abusive text messages about how I was so rude to leave. I responded back saying I have the right to leave the room if I want to.
I also explained that I didn’t want anything more to do with him than just a housemate- that’s it. He again got angry saying that he only wanted me as a friend.
This guy walks around in expensive brands and always has to buy the latest Apple product even though he has perfectly good Apple products already. (He works in a grocery store)
Recently, the last 2 weeks, I’ve decided to buy the game UNO to get everyone together and have some fun as usually everyone sits in there seperate rooms and don’t socialise.
The only person who wants to play UNO is David. He’s starting to ask me questions like: “have you had sex in the shower before” “we should play UNO in my room” “if you ever want to come into my room, you can” “have you been to a strip club before”
Lately he’s said to me “we should seriously go for a drive” or “we should go to this particular place where there is a lookout over the city” then when I said “no” he says “we can go anywhere where you want to go”
Last night he says to me “tomorrow let’s go out for dessert after your work” I said “no, because I just don’t want to”
Since then this guy has completely ignored me and will sit ages away from me on the other side of the room.
It’s been super awkward and it’s obvious he’s pissed off because I keep rejecting him.
I’m not sure where to go from here or what to say to him?
I really want him to move out of the house.
TLDR: housemate has made advances towards me and is asking inappropriate questions. He is now ignoring me and it’s super awkward.
Submitted September 02, 2019 at 02:29AM by workspace001 https://ift.tt/2LeWmRz
No comments:
Post a Comment