My [22F] Husband [25M] of 3 months left to a party last night and I think he cheated on me. He still hasn't returned.

We've been together for 5 years, married for 3 months. We live together but we dont have any joint bank accounts or children and my name is not on the lease.

We got in an argument 2 days ago in which he threw all my clothes around and punched and shattered a mirror. I tried to stay calm and just let him calm down as well and he slept in his brother's room (our roomate) while I slept in our bedroom that night. The next day he slept until 4 PM so in the afternoon I went swimming in a nearby lake to clear my mind some. I got back around 7 and noticed he was gone so I called to see where he was. He told me he was going to a pool party and he wouldn't be gone long. I knew what pool party he was talking about, we have a friend who's related to a celebrity and is known for throwing these huge, wild parties that we usually attend together. These parties 100% always consist of naked girls, blowjobs, sex, wild stunts, swingers, dares, naked games, etc. Its basically a contest to see who can do the most shocking and nasty shit. I seen a video of him in the pool on the owner's snapchat.

Anyway, the pool party venue closed around 8 and then everyone headed back to our friends party mansion. After he told me he was going to this party, he turned his phone off and left it off all night. He left with our other roommate, who is another guy. I called him once and he also ignored my call. It is now 3 PM the next day and I saw that he turned his phone on, but hasn't tried reaching out to me at all, so I havent even tried reaching out to him again. I'm really hurt and heartbroken. He told me he would be back soon and I have no idea where he was sleeping last night. This has all been out of character for him and I dont know what I did to deserve it. I'm so angry, I just wanna break all his shit but that's not who I am and I wont stoop to that level. I want to just up and leave but my car isn't running and I dont know where to go. I dont have many family or friends around. I just dont know where this came from or what I should do about it.

TL;DR: I got married to my boyfriend of 5 years 3 months ago and after getting in an argument he went to this big wild party and said he wouldn't be gone long. It's now 3 PM the next day and still no word from him.

Submitted June 24, 2019 at 12:18PM by peachcream http://bit.ly/2Fp1uiX