Hello everyone!
So, as of late, there have been some signs that my boyfriend of two years is cheating on me. We have had a good relationship so far and we have been living together for one year.
Here is what has happened in the past 6 months.
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I found a pair of panties on one of his bags by mistake. I was using the bag for something and I was trying to empty it out. After I confronted him about it, he said his last boyfriend used to be into wearing them and he forgot to throw it away. I was upset and he has the kind of personality in which he’d forget that he had it. So I moved on.
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A month or so later, since I work with a non profit organization that throws concerts, I was helping him get some tickets with my code on his phone. I went on his browser (Chrome) and I saw that he had double list (same as Craigslist for hook ups). He took the phone away from me when he saw I went to Chrome because, as he put it, “that’s his porn browser.” He also said that he only looks as listings and pictures to jerk off. Again, I believed him.
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A month or so after that, we have a third roommate which we are getting away with. Anyways, she mentioned that she kept hearing voices when I wasn’t there and when he was supposed to be alone. I chalked it out to bring the TV and let go.
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This past weekend, we were looking at tickets for movies on his phone when I noticed he had Grindr. He said he had it because he was showing his coworkers how it worked. But on iOS when you download an app, it doesn’t go to a folder. The app was on a folder - which means that he probably moved it there instead of deleting it.
After this incident, he swears that he is not cheating on me. We usually have sex about three times a month. I keep trying for more but he’s never had a high sex drive or that’s what he claims anyways.
We are about to move to a new apartment so I told him that if he is, this would be the perfect opportunity since we can go on our way but he keeps denying it. My gut tells me not to trust him but maybe it’s just a bunch of coincidences.
I have not been looking for hints or clues of him cheating. I always randomly stomp into them.
So, here I am asking strangers. Am I over reacting? If so, I will let go but it just looks too suspicious.
TL;DR I believe my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have seen several “clues.” Unsure as to what to do.
P.S. English is not my first language, so please forgive typos.
Submitted June 24, 2019 at 01:01PM by hospitalitystudent http://bit.ly/2J8oOST
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