Throwaway because some people know my main account.
My fiancé is in the process of getting a tattoo sleeve, he said he wanted it to have some designs that would remind him of certain moments of his life. So far he had done some things related to his family, friends and some trips. Today he went to get another piece done that was something a friend of his drew for him. After he came home I asked to see how it looked and he seemed a little nervous about it, which made me think that maybe something had gone wrong so I joked about it and he ended up showing it to me.
Everything looked good except I noticed two letters that seemed to be a little bit hidden, at first I thought his friend had signed it as part of the piece but it didn't match said friend's name. I asked my fiancé what it meant and if it was supposed to be there. Again, he became nervous which made me think something had indeed gone wrong during the process. I started talking to him about alternatives and that people probably wouldn't notice it, he became even more nervous and ended up telling the truth. It was his ex's initials. She broke up with him six years ago and he only talked about her one time when we first started dating and were talking about past relationships. After her he had 2 other girlfriends before meeting me and that was all he told me.
I asked if he was going to do the same thing with every girl he had dated in the past and he told me that no, it was only going to be her. I tried to keep my calm and ask why her and he answered he didn't want to talk about it since it was personal. That pushed me over the edge and we ended up arguing, well, I argued and he ignored me. After it was over he packed some stuff and told me he was going to stay at his brother's house. His brother called me a few hours ago asking what had happened, I didn't say anything as my fiancé didn't tell him either.
At this point I'm just wondering if I overreacted but at the same time I feel very hurt, not only for the tattoo but also because of his behavior during the entire situation. I don't know how to bring the conversation up without getting the same results again and I would rather not do it so soon. I don't wanna bring my friends into this because I want to try between us but at the same time I wish I could have some sort of outside perspective.
TL;DR Fiancé got a tattoo of his ex's initials. Tried to hide it and got defensive when I asked him his reasoning behind it. We argued and he ended up leaving to his brother's house. I don't know if I overreacted and I wanna try and get some perspective so I can try to fix it.
Submitted February 02, 2019 at 05:38PM by 98324112334 http://bit.ly/2Sr8vr2
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