He left me last year with our two kids (10M and 8M) for my sister. They had been close since they met and it wasn't strange at the time because he was like an older brother to her (by the way him and I had been together for 12 years). Last year he had started acting cold and secretive towards me, and he changed nearly all of his passwords--when I confronted him, he broke down and admitted to an affair and led me on to believe it was with one of his coworkers. We decided to get couples' therapy and work on our marriage, but we got into an argument after our first session and he left. He came back for his things later, and he insisted that the marriage was over and could never be fixed.
After a few months of no contact from him, I found out through my parents that he had moved in with my sister, and I believe the affair had been with her. I cut contact with both him and my sister after this.
Yesterday, he called me and said that he had made a mistake and wanted to work things out with me instead of going through with the divorce. As sad as it is to admit, I'm still in love with him and our children miss him--they've also been getting worse grades and acting out since the separation. Should I let him come back? He could be a shitty husband but he was a great father.
**TL;DR:** Husband left me for my sister. My children and I miss him. He wants to get back together--should I give him another chance?
Submitted February 02, 2019 at 02:02PM by throwawayyyheyheyhey http://bit.ly/2MT5ElP
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