My (M25) boyfriend (now ex) told (F21) me he's going out at 9pm and I never question him because I didn't doubt he'd do something behind my back. But at 11:30pm when I called him on FaceTime and he didn't pick up, called me a few minutes later background was him walking out a house to his car. My intuition told me I need to question him. He claimed he was at his football friend Alex's house but it didn't sound convincing so I asked about 3-4 times are you sure? he said yes, do you not trust me? I said I'm not quite sure and asked him "if I told you to go to his house and say hi to me for me, can you do that?" he said yes he can. he proceeded to get out the car and walk across the street yet hung up on me. Few minutes later he called me back saying his parents had came home he can't go into his house. I called him bullshit and forced him to tell me the truth. Finally, he admit he's not with Alex right now but he was with him earlier. I questioned him more he then said it's a girl from this fbk group he had met. He tried to explain why he hung out with a girl at 11pm and lied to me but At that point I had decided we cannot continue the relationship anymore. I don't even care what he did with the girl, isn't lying bad enough? These were his exact words: I didn't tell you the truth because I was scared you're going to overreact". He cried, begged, and tried to guilt trip me but after 45minutes I decided I gave him enough time and wished him luck with his life and blocked him everywhere. I want to ask did I overreacted? tbh I need some reassurance because he tried to guilt trip me saying he was depressed and needed friends that's why he went to see the girl.
TL;DR: He lied saying he's with his homie but he was over at a girl's house at night. I broke up with him and blocked him, did I overreacted?
Update: typo "I blocked him everywhere".
Submitted February 24, 2019 at 01:15AM by fluffyspotato https://ift.tt/2GW5PvA
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